Note/Book

[ESFJ] Consul. Extroverted Emotional Type with a Sense of Introversion (MBTI)

ESFJs are Fe-Si's cognitive function, so they make decisions based on their past experiences and achievements, while taking into account the emotions and social expectations of others. However, if their caring nature goes too far, they may become 'meddlesome, over-involved and caring', so it is difficult to find the right balance.Also, I feel that many people are basically chatty and often seek advice from others. They also have a clear sense of joy, anger, sorrow and pleasure.

2024.05.21 2024.07.31

Note/Book

[ISTP] Virtuoso. Introverted Thinking Type with a Sense of Extroversion (MBTI)

ISTP is a cognitive function of Ti-Se and therefore a realistic rationalist. They analyse situations and problems logically and find real, practical solutions. My impression is that the term 'tough loner' best describes this type.The degree of unwillingness to be bound by rules and regulations is the highest among MBTI's. Although he has considerable emotional ebbs and flows on the inside, he rarely shows them on the outside and is often seen as a rational and calm person.

2024.05.22 2024.07.31

Note/Book

[ESTP] Entrepreneur. Extroverted Sensory Type with Introverted Thinking (MBTI)

ESTPs are Se-Ti cognitive functions, so they make logical decisions based on information obtained through the five senses; my impression of ESTPs is that they are 'hedonists' in the best sense of the word; like ENTPs, they are impatient and quick-witted, but unlike ENTPs, they are more realistic and take action as soon as they think of it, which is even higher than ENTPs. Even more so than ENTPs.

2024.05.24 2024.07.31

Note/Book

[ESFP] Entertainer. Extroverted Sensory Type with Introverted Emotion (MBTI)

ESFP is a cognitive function of Se-Fi, so it makes decisions based on its own emotions from information obtained through the five senses. They are sociable and jovial and like to be in groups with friends, conversely, prolonged 1:1 conversations would be awkward or uncomfortable as the ESFP would get bored.

2024.05.25 2024.07.31

Note/Book

[Childcare] 2 useful tools for daytime childcare (birth to 6 months): baby monitor and electric high-low chair.

The baby monitor allows the user to check on the monitor machine as soon as there is a change in the sleeping baby's condition in the bedroom or elsewhere, even while doing household chores in the living room or kitchen. The electric high-low chair was more useful than I had imagined, as an alternative to the daytime sleeping cuddle.

2024.07.07

Note/Bookraising children

[Dual Career Couples] What are the three transitions in work and life and the traps it is easy to fall into!

INSEAD associate professor surveyed 113 couples (including same-sex couples, de facto marriages and remarriages) from 32 countries, including Japan, aged 26 to 63 years. Childcare, relocation, career change, caregiving, retirement and children's independence. ......The book explains the three transitions that stand in the way of career-oriented couples in the age of 100 years of life, and how to overcome them.

2024.07.06

carrierNote/Book

[Career] Why do low performers increase after middle age?

Middle performers have no problems and therefore are left alone for better or worse by the company until their mid-30s to mid-40s, when they are in the prime of their working lives, and when they finally reach their mid-40s, they are treated as low performers and subject to release, which I felt was a terrible thing, but on the contrary, if they knew such a future was waiting for them in ten years' time, However, if they knew that such a future would be waiting for them in ten years' time, they would have a sense of crisis and could take measures to prepare for it from their early 30s.

2024.07.02 2024.07.05

carrierNote/Book

[Three Bodies] Analogy between the Black Dark Forest and the Cultural Revolution: Chain of Suspicion and Détente

The scepticism chain depicted in The Black Dark Forest is an analogy to the chain of suspicion and distrust found in Chinese society during the Cultural Revolution. This analogy emphasises how destructive a lack of trust and a chain of mistrust can be. Ultimately, Luo Zhai negotiates with the Three Bodies against his own plans, and the end of Part II ends with an appearance of détente (easing of tensions)

2024.05.20 2024.06.29

Note/Book